I've done fairly well for myself, dropping out of college and make great money, I own my own house/car, travel the world, but my mom phrases my older sister for 'getting clean' and yet, I've never once touched a drug in my life. My sister has spent time in prison and here I am with only a speeding ticket to my name. While I commend my sister to cleaning her life up, my mom still wants to compare us to each other. I also haven't spoken to my sister in 10 years and my mom tells me I should reach out. I hate when my mom compares us and also suggests I reach out to my sister.