I've had a friends with benefit for about 4 years and I JUST found out he's married and his wife lives out of state and they probably only see each other once or twice a month. Our FWB has kinda turned into more, but without there a conversation about it. I honestly didn't know he was married - he says it's just a business agreement between him and his wife (don't they all say that?) I know I should walk away but we have 4 years together... like, he's been to my family gatherings and I've been to some of his work things. #Confused